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BEFORE YOU SAY YES ONLINE PRE-ENGAGEMENT COUNSELLING

Complete our FREE Bible based online pre-engagement counselling program which we have designed specifically for seriously dating couples, who are ready to take the next step in their relationship, and are looking to move to a deeper level of commitment on their journey towards marriage.

Congratulations! You are thinking about getting married!

Does the thought of spending the rest of your life with your significant other fill you with trepidation or does it fill you with joyful expectation? 

We feel that the decision to spend the rest of one’s life with another is a serious and life changing event and should not be approached with the “fingers crossed” attitude of a child spinning the wheel at a fair, but with the confident surety of a seasoned builder as he takes the first steps onto a concrete floor he himself has laid, using the best materials and workmanship.

How can you be sure that the person you are getting engaged to is right for you? How do maximise the chances of your marriage lasting your lifetimes? How do you intend to beat the odds that say that half of all marriages will end in divorce or separation?

We believe that the best time to fix a marriage is before it starts.

It’s with this in mind that we have created this free resource for seriously dating couples who are ready to take the next step in their relationship and are looking to move to a deeper level of commitment on their journey towards marriage.

BEFORE YOU SAY YES is a 21 module self paced online resource tool which we have designed to help couples explore each others’ core personalities, and will encourage them to look thoroughly at their pasts, and project realistically into their futures to discuss potential challenges they might face in marriage. It includes daily devotional content, compatibility questionnaires, self rating and useful links to further online resources.

These tools will help you and your partner explore the road ahead and guide you as you make an informed decision before embarking on the fulfilling journey towards spending the rest of your lives together.

Some Topics Covered Include

Family

Discover more about the family your partner comes from and use this to better understand who they are, why they behave the way they do and what kind of family they would like to have.

Finance

Explore you and your partners money habits and discover how this will impact on life together as a married couple. Discuss assets, liabilities and debts (student loans, store card and credit card loans, mortgages) and explore what your partner thinks about investments

Culture

How does the cultural practices of one family differ from the other and how can this impact on your future happiness

Communication

Do you both know how to communicate your thoughts and feelings to each other? Determine your partners communication style and explore how this works with yours.  

Spirituality

Discover just how much you both have in common when in comes to faith. What kind of involvement in Church or faith based activities do you both require for spiritual growth and development?

Medical Information

Discuss medical compatibility including genotype and blood type, and explore family history of any long term conditions or serious diseases

Some Topics Covered Include

Family

Discover more about the family your partner comes from and use this to better understand who they are, why they behave the way they do and what kind of family they would like to have.

Finance

Explore you and your partners money habits and discover how this will impact on life together as a married couple. Discuss assets, liabilities and debts (student loans, store card and credit card loans, mortgages) and explore what your partner thinks about investments

Culture

How does the cultural practices of one family differ from the other and how can this impact on your future happiness

Communication

Do you both know how to communicate your thoughts and feelings to each other? Determine your partners communication style and explore how this works with yours.  

Spirituality

Discover just how much you both have in common when in comes to faith. What kind of involvement in Church or faith based activities do you both require for spiritual growth and development?

Medical Information

Discuss medical compatibility including genotype and blood type, and explore family history of any long term conditions or serious diseases

Self Paced

Complete the program with your significant other and explore the 21 point content spread over the recommended  4 weeks or at your own pace

Devotional

Easy to read familiar devotional style content with recommended scripture passages and further study suggestions

Questionnaire

In depth questionnaires and conversation guides specifically designed to help you explore and determine compatibility 

Scores

At the end of every section both partners can choose a rough compatibility score which can be collated at the end of the program as a decision guide

Pray

Plan

Propose